Terms
Last updated 9 November 2026
The short version: be kind, keep it anonymous, and know that this is a place to be heard, not a place to get emergency help.
What this site is
I'm With You is a free website where anyone can leave a short, anonymous note about how they feel and see that other people are with them. By using it, you agree to these terms.
It is not a crisis service
No trained counsellor reads notes in real time, and pressing I'm With You is a sign that someone saw a note, not that anyone will contact you. If you are in danger, call 911. Other support lines are listed on the help page.
Who can use it
You need to be at least 13 years old. If you are under 18, consider telling a trusted adult that you are using it.
What you can share
Share how you feel in your own words. These things are not allowed and will not be published:
- Language about suicide or self-harm. Instead of posting it, the site will show you where to find help.
- Threats or descriptions of hurting other people.
- Explicit, sexual, hateful or abusive language.
- Links, phone numbers, email addresses, social media handles, or requests to contact you privately.
- Names, addresses or other personal details about you or anyone else.
- Spam, advertising, or pretending to be someone else.
How we keep the wall safe
Notes pass through an automatic filter before they appear. The filter is not perfect, so anyone can report a note. A note that is reported several times is hidden until it has been reviewed. We may remove any note at any time, for any reason, without notice.
Your notes
- Notes are public. Anyone who visits can read them.
- Notes are anonymous. Please do not include anything that identifies you.
- You can remove your own note from the same browser you posted it with.
- Notes stay on the site until they are removed, by you or by us.
- You keep ownership of what you write. By sharing a note you allow us to display it on the site until it is removed.
No guarantees
The site is provided as it is. It may be unavailable at times, and notes are written by other people whom we do not know and cannot check. To the extent the law allows, we are not responsible for loss or harm that comes from using the site or from reading notes on it.
Changes
We may update these terms. The date at the top shows when they last changed. Continuing to use the site means you accept the updated terms.
Contact
Questions, or a note you want taken down: hello@imwithyou.net.